On the latest episode of 90 Day Fiance: The Different Means, Rishi determined to point out Jen a style of conventional Indian family duties.

Or, as she phrased it, “spouse coaching.”

Jen seemed to be in a state of shock as she realized in regards to the excessive gender roles and expectations that she may face in a standard Indian family.

In fact, that was when she first realized of it. Now, on social media, Jen has her personal ideas to share. Possibly she and Rishi discovered a more healthy stability in spite of everything?

Jen Boecher took to social media this week to offer some obvious commentary on the newest episode.

She shared a glimpse of Rishi Singh stirring a big pot of mutton curry to her Instagram Story on Wednesday, March 15. (Everybody survive the Ides of March alright?)

“Rishi wears the pants AND the apron,” she quipped. “No complaints right here.”

As we noticed throughout the episode, after Jen caught Rishi in a sequence of partial truths (we’re being good), he took her to a buddy’s home.

There, she would get to expertise the expectations that will come from marrying Rishi and becoming a member of his household’s family. As a result of it could not simply be the 2 of them.

Seeta instantly advised the digicam that she didn’t anticipate for Jen to have a simple time studying this. Jen is from America, she famous, the place she has a cultural expectation of gender equality. Right here, she would expertise one thing very completely different.

Rishi phrased this as “studying duty in a joint household,” in distinction to what Jen referred to as it.

“Indian dad and mom have numerous expectations for a future daughter-in-law,” he advised the digicam.

“However an Indian woman already know what their obligation and duties.”

In the meantime, Jen referred to as this “spouse coaching.” And it’s simple to see why.

She realized about rising effectively earlier than daybreak to arrange tea and meals.

And she or he realized that the expectation was to serve the lads of the family earlier than having fun with her personal meals.

Jen understood a few of this forward of time. However numerous it was new to her.

“I knew Rishi lived along with his household and had obligations to care for the household in each means,” she advised the cameras.

“However I believed that these had been issues that he might do from our household residence or residence,” Jen reasoned. That appears pure; with out him telling her, why would she suppose in any other case?

Jen additionally confessed that she felt “a little bit offended” that Rishi clearly felt that she wanted coaching “to discover ways to be a spouse.”

In the meantime, she felt “overwhelmed” upon studying that she may face an expectation to spend her total day cleansing the house. All day, every single day.

And whereas that is information to her, clearly, Rishi knew about all of those expectations and extra your entire time.

Actually, Rishi’s mom advised the cameras that she seemed ahead to Rishi getting into a wedding (an organized one) in order that she would have a daughter-in-law to handle the family.

(A daily reminder that we don’t know what Rishi’s household believes the cameras are there for; Rishi and producers might have advised them any cowl story, however what?)

Jen’s social media submit appears to point that she and Rishi discovered a wholesome stability of labor. But when so, how does his household really feel about it?