First, Syria’s civil conflict drove Hind Qayduha from her house within the metropolis of Aleppo. Then, battle and joblessness compelled her household to flee two extra instances. Two years in the past, she got here to southern Turkey, considering she had lastly discovered security and stability.

However when a strong earthquake struck per week in the past, it destroyed their house in the hard-hit Turkish metropolis of Antakya and the household was displaced once more. They sought security close by, braced towards the facet of the mountain round a medieval monastery and uncovered to a chilly rain; like many different survivors, they have been too shaken to remain beneath any roof.

Two days later, they have been residing on the ground of an unfinished carwash in Antakya.

“That is my room for me, my husband and three children,” Ms. Qayduha stated, laughing as she outlined together with her fingers a small circle on the black-and-white patterned blanket, a meager cushion atop the gravel ground. She pointed to a different a part of the identical blanket: “And there’s my mom’s room.”

She stated different kin who had been residing close to her have been nonetheless buried within the rubble of their houses.

For Syrians, each refugees like Ms. Qayduha and people nonetheless residing again house, final Monday’s earthquake was a catastrophe inside a catastrophe. Over the previous 12 years, their lives have been uprooted by civil conflict and the mass displacement and demise it introduced. Syrians know all too properly the lack of houses — partitions felled in mere seconds, individuals trapped beneath the rubble for days. However the refugees who fled to Turkey thought they’d left these traumas behind.

Now, this previous week, some stated the wholesale destruction wrought by the earthquake was far worse than something they’d seen in additional than a decade of conflict.

The civil conflict displaced greater than half of Syria’s 21 million individuals, and practically 4 million of them ended up as refugees in Turkey. Many lived within the swath of territory most closely affected by the earthquake, which killed greater than 29,000 individuals in southern Turkey and greater than 3,500 throughout the border in northwestern Syria — tolls that preserve steadily rising.

At first, the Syrian refugees have been largely welcomed in Turkey. The Syrians had comparatively respectable alternatives to make new lives and livelihoods.

However over time, they’ve confronted rising discrimination and stress to return house, particularly lately because the Turkish financial system has taken a pointy downturn. The immense humanitarian disaster created by the earthquake reignited and heightened these longstanding tensions.

“And now we’re beneath menace from the Turks, who may kick us in a foreign country,” stated Ms. Qayduha, 37.

Turkish residents of Antakya have leveled unsubstantiated accusations on the Syrians of looting or grabbing jewellery off corpses.

Tulin Kuseyri, a 62-year-old Turkish girl, stood by the Orontes River in Antakya on Thursday, watching searchers take away a physique from an house constructing. Close to her lay the physique of somebody she had identified, wrapped in a pink blanket — one in every of many kin and mates she stated she had misplaced within the earthquake, alongside together with her household’s cotton manufacturing facility and her house.

“I don’t need Syrian immigrants in Antakya anymore,” she stated, barely capable of management herself. “As a substitute of paying for Syrian individuals from our taxes, we would like them to maintain Turks.”

But the connection between Turks and Syrian refugees is way extra advanced than worry, blame and resentment. In Antakya and different affected areas, some Syrian households stated Turkish ones had shared no matter shelter and meals they’d with them.

Different Syrian refugees stated that the government-run rescue and aid response had not discriminated among the many needy.

“Thank God, Turkey isn’t distinguishing between us,” stated Jamal Ezzal Deen, a 30-year-old Syrian, as he held his 2-year-old daughter, Fatima. “Even when there may be some racism from the individuals.”

On Thursday at a tent camp erected round Antakya’s soccer stadium, he had watched as a Turkish girl hassled a Turkish Military officer, insisting that the help ought to go solely to the Turks, not the Syrians. The officer instructed her they wouldn’t discriminate.

Ms. Qayduha stated she nonetheless had household in Syria, together with two sisters in northwestern Idlib Province and an aunt in Aleppo — two of the areas hardest hit by the quake. However she hasn’t been capable of join with them. It’s a continuing reminder that Syrians on either side of the border are united in struggling.

She stated this was the second time she had misplaced her house and all her possessions.

“I don’t personal something besides these children, thank God,” she stated in a raspy voice, hoarse from the chilly, as she prolonged her arms towards her 9-year-old daughter.

She and her household have been determined to go away the carwash, which has a big opening that enables in bitterly chilly air. They need to discover higher shelter within the tent camps the Turkish authorities has been establishing.

However they have been spooked by rumors that they wouldn’t be allowed in as a result of they’re Syrian, or that roaming teams of armed Turks have been on the lookout for Syrians to assault.

And it was not solely the potential for rising anti-Syrian sentiment or the worry of assaults that has made some Syrians need to depart Turkey: They dread one other earthquake or different pure catastrophe.

At evening within the carwash, the mother and father sheltering there put their youngsters to sleep dressed and sporting footwear, in case one other aftershock ought to power them to run.

All of it turned out to be an excessive amount of for Ms. Qayduha and her prolonged household. They used a few of their final remaining cash and paid drivers to take them farther west, outdoors the earthquake zone.

“Again once we have been residing within the conflict, we might flee to a different space and we’d really feel safer,” stated Ms. Qayduha’s mom, Dalal Masri, 55. “However right here, we don’t really feel like there’s wherever secure to go.”

Exterior a collapsed house constructing in Antakya, a lady in her 50s who stated she had come from northwestern Syria to Turkey simply days earlier than the earthquake saved a hopeful vigil for days. She didn’t need to give her title out of concern for her security.

The constructing was the place her daughter, 9 months pregnant, had been residing together with her household, and the mom had come to Turkey for the start.

“Can a mom depart her daughter’s facet?” she stated on Friday, wiping away tears. She squeezed her eyes shut, seemingly prepared them to cease. “Everybody right here is ready for somebody beneath.”

Wrapped in a navy scarf, she saved a watch on a handful of rescuers who have been strolling alongside the upturned edges of the constructing’s balconies, sometimes calling into the destroyed constructing’s depths and listening intently for any response, nevertheless faint.

When requested if any voices had been heard up to now, she started to cry once more.

“It’s been 100 hours.”

Close by, a playground was strung up with sheets and blankets, changed into a relaxation space for rescue employees. A skinny foam mattress stretched throughout the yellow slide, a makeshift mattress.

On Saturday, the mom lastly acquired the grim information. Rescuers had discovered her daughter’s physique and that of her 3-year-old son in the course of the evening. They buried them subsequent to one another.

The mom stated she had come to Turkey anticipating to welcome one other grandchild. As a substitute, she’s going to return to Syria, having buried the daughter who was her finest pal.

Vivian Yee contributed reporting.